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I just adopted a sweet, wonderful kitten who a friend took in off the street. This one showed up on her doorstep at two in the morning and meowed to be taken care of. She loves being an indoor cat, and she strikes me as a pet that got lost somehow (they did look for an owner). Since they already have three cats, they kept her outside where she did lots of romping around the yard, playing hunter kitty. I got a kitty crush the second I picked her up and now she's spent a few weeks in my one-bedroom with me. She hasn't even tried to harm furniture or carpet, took to the scratching post right away, knew exactly what to do with the litter box and loves the food I give her. She can't get enough of the cardboard bits at the end of the wire, and I try to give her plenty of play time with me. She's a really, really good cat.
The problem is I can't so much as get my fingers near her mouth when I'm petting her. It can happen in seconds, and she does it every single time. It's not overstimulation, because she's clearly loving what I'm doing, and I feel terrible that I can't give her affection without stopping abruptly because she's taken a nip at me. I say "no" sharply, but not angrily, and she sits there looking around. I don't know if she's confused or conflicted. I think she gets it because I can practically see her trying not to bite me, like she can't help herself when she feels good. (she's the first cat I've personally owned, so I'm not sure when I'm anthropomorphizing) I try to just get her neck and back, and she cranes her head around to go for my hand. These aren't hard bites, but she'll bite harder if I allow it. I have no idea what to do.
One more detail: she was taken in by another person my friend knows, who had to bring her back. The other person already had a couple cats, who Phoebe didn't get along with. She was described as "bossy", and it was decided she would be happier as an only kitten. She's the opposite of a fraidy cat. Phoebe settled in within minutes of getting her to my home and has no issues being picked up by anyone. She's very special, and a natural people cat.
The vet says she's about six months old, and I'm getting her spayed in a couple days if that matters. Thanks for your best advice.
The problem is I can't so much as get my fingers near her mouth when I'm petting her. It can happen in seconds, and she does it every single time. It's not overstimulation, because she's clearly loving what I'm doing, and I feel terrible that I can't give her affection without stopping abruptly because she's taken a nip at me. I say "no" sharply, but not angrily, and she sits there looking around. I don't know if she's confused or conflicted. I think she gets it because I can practically see her trying not to bite me, like she can't help herself when she feels good. (she's the first cat I've personally owned, so I'm not sure when I'm anthropomorphizing) I try to just get her neck and back, and she cranes her head around to go for my hand. These aren't hard bites, but she'll bite harder if I allow it. I have no idea what to do.
One more detail: she was taken in by another person my friend knows, who had to bring her back. The other person already had a couple cats, who Phoebe didn't get along with. She was described as "bossy", and it was decided she would be happier as an only kitten. She's the opposite of a fraidy cat. Phoebe settled in within minutes of getting her to my home and has no issues being picked up by anyone. She's very special, and a natural people cat.
The vet says she's about six months old, and I'm getting her spayed in a couple days if that matters. Thanks for your best advice.
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