Hello, I am new here!
I would love to bring a cat into our household. Hubby and I have a dog, will probably have children within the next 2 years, and I would love to have a cat as well. Our dog is quite good with other animals, is very sweet.
My biggest requirement in a cat is a cuddly, affectionate, cat who loves to be picked up and sit in my lap or by my side. I used to own a Persian, and he absolutely stole my heart. From the first moment I met him at the breeder's house, he walked right up to me and rolled over on his back for me to rub his belly. He was the sweetest creature on the planet, possibly my favorite pet of all time (tied 1st place with my first dog when I was 6 years old). His name was Pepper, and you could not find a sweeter more gentle and affectionate animal anywhere. I had to give him away because at the time I was a single girl living by myself in an apartment working 12 hour days. My cat would cry all day because he was alone (my neighbor would scold me when I came home, as he should have!). I eventually found him a very loving home with 3 kids and a stay at home mom. But it broke my heart to give him away, and I still miss Pepper with all my heart!
I think a cat that is overly active would not suit me, or our lifestyle. I now work out of home, and can give the cat lots of attention, but not necessarily constant active "play" attention (not that I would never play with my cat!). Pepper was perfect in that regard. So huggable, and loved to be held and to sit in my lap. He also didn't tend to jump on things too much, which was a nice plus, but not an absolutely necessary trait, after all, we're talking cats! Also, I'm guessing that a very active cat might possibly have an inclination to scratch at or be annoyed with a baby, which would frighten me.
Please share your suggestions, I'd love to hear them! I have read good things about the "Ragamuffin" and "Ragdoll" breeds. But maybe Persians are the best choice for me and our future family? But on some websites they are listed as slightly aloof and shy. I guess I just lucked out with Pepper. I miss him so much! Thank you for your input.
Best,
NYKat
I would love to bring a cat into our household. Hubby and I have a dog, will probably have children within the next 2 years, and I would love to have a cat as well. Our dog is quite good with other animals, is very sweet.
My biggest requirement in a cat is a cuddly, affectionate, cat who loves to be picked up and sit in my lap or by my side. I used to own a Persian, and he absolutely stole my heart. From the first moment I met him at the breeder's house, he walked right up to me and rolled over on his back for me to rub his belly. He was the sweetest creature on the planet, possibly my favorite pet of all time (tied 1st place with my first dog when I was 6 years old). His name was Pepper, and you could not find a sweeter more gentle and affectionate animal anywhere. I had to give him away because at the time I was a single girl living by myself in an apartment working 12 hour days. My cat would cry all day because he was alone (my neighbor would scold me when I came home, as he should have!). I eventually found him a very loving home with 3 kids and a stay at home mom. But it broke my heart to give him away, and I still miss Pepper with all my heart!
I think a cat that is overly active would not suit me, or our lifestyle. I now work out of home, and can give the cat lots of attention, but not necessarily constant active "play" attention (not that I would never play with my cat!). Pepper was perfect in that regard. So huggable, and loved to be held and to sit in my lap. He also didn't tend to jump on things too much, which was a nice plus, but not an absolutely necessary trait, after all, we're talking cats! Also, I'm guessing that a very active cat might possibly have an inclination to scratch at or be annoyed with a baby, which would frighten me.
Please share your suggestions, I'd love to hear them! I have read good things about the "Ragamuffin" and "Ragdoll" breeds. But maybe Persians are the best choice for me and our future family? But on some websites they are listed as slightly aloof and shy. I guess I just lucked out with Pepper. I miss him so much! Thank you for your input.
Best,
NYKat