I have had my cat Ginger for four years. I never knew that I could love the way I love her. And it has been pretty obvious that she feels the same. Until tonight. I found a sweet little malnourished stray kitty two nights ago. Actually, it was like she picked me. I just couldn't leave her. I brought her home, put her in the bathroom with all the necessities, and $250 in vet bills later, she is back in the bathroom. The poor thing only weighed three pounds. She is starving and she's a mess. Burrs and who knows what else all over her. I'm bringing her back to vet this week to be groomed and spayed. She is so sweet. It's like she keeps saying, thank you, thank you. My problem is that my old cat (love of my life) is totally panicked and full of anguish. I feel so terrible. She won't let me near her. She tried to bite me when she smelled me. Can anyone help me with dealing with this? My first baby is my main priority but how am I going to part with the new one. Is this normal in the beginning? Will my #1 go back to her sweet loving self? Please help.