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When I rescued the very, very sweet tuxedo cat, it was love at first sight. I spent the whole day in the room we had him quarantined in where I would wake up to find him rubbing his head against mine, kissing my face and just *loooove*. He adored being held by me. He was my cuddly companion.
But then he was allowed to leave the room and work on making friends with Sammy (pictured). It was slow but Poe was persistent. He became more adventurous and excited and now is very comfortable in our home. But that also meant he stopped rubbing and loving and cuddling with me!
However:
I trimmed his nails once, sitting on my bed with him mewling in a towel and then gave him plenty of treats but after that he didn't want to come up on my bed and cuddle me in the morning. The second time I trimmed his nails, on my bed, him wrapped in a towel looking at me so betrayed and fearful that he had to be wrapped in a towel and oh my goodness I am horrible! Then he got plenty of treats and he loves me but now won't come near my bed. He stopped rubbing his face against mine even before I trimmed his nails.
So I know at this point he probably associates the bed with unpleasant nail trimming (I have trimmed rattie nails and ferret nails, I do know how to trim them) so I guess the question is how do I earn his trust back? I'm dishing out $14 to the vet for them to trim his nails since I no longer want him to associate that whole thing with me.
How do I make my furry friend love and trust and cuddle me again? Why did he stop? Am I really so terrible when I trimmed his nails?
But then he was allowed to leave the room and work on making friends with Sammy (pictured). It was slow but Poe was persistent. He became more adventurous and excited and now is very comfortable in our home. But that also meant he stopped rubbing and loving and cuddling with me!
However:
I trimmed his nails once, sitting on my bed with him mewling in a towel and then gave him plenty of treats but after that he didn't want to come up on my bed and cuddle me in the morning. The second time I trimmed his nails, on my bed, him wrapped in a towel looking at me so betrayed and fearful that he had to be wrapped in a towel and oh my goodness I am horrible! Then he got plenty of treats and he loves me but now won't come near my bed. He stopped rubbing his face against mine even before I trimmed his nails.
So I know at this point he probably associates the bed with unpleasant nail trimming (I have trimmed rattie nails and ferret nails, I do know how to trim them) so I guess the question is how do I earn his trust back? I'm dishing out $14 to the vet for them to trim his nails since I no longer want him to associate that whole thing with me.
How do I make my furry friend love and trust and cuddle me again? Why did he stop? Am I really so terrible when I trimmed his nails?