While our cat Jynx was pregnant we decided we would keep one and 're-home the rest to responsible friends and family whom expressed interest. Unfortunately, two days after she gave birth 3 of the 5 kittens died. I now want to keep both kittens due to the circumstances and my other half is against it. His friends parents just lost a cat last year due to old age and they were interested in taking a male when they were ready. They also have another elderly male cat. Hoping they would no longer be interested because the two that survived, Alley and Shadow, are females. But, they did their research and are fine with taking her since she will be getting spayed anyway.I am having a really hard time choosing which kitten to go. They will be 12 weeks on Sept 3rd. My heart breaks watching how close they all are and knowing I have to give one up. I know it's a great family and either one would be taken care of but at this point I'd rather see the both go together or not at all. I know realistically keeping 3 cats isn't ideal. We have 4 boys, ages 19, 12, 10, and 2. Also, our female dog, Chops. I say if we are going to have 2, what's one more. I'm not a cat lady, just have a huge heart for animals. He says we can't tell them no at this point because they are anxiously waiting this whole time. Watching their behaviours I can come up with reasons why either one should go or stay. I'm so torn and want him to just understand.