That is a wonderful idea, as time goes by, specific things can slip away. I reread the letter that Bob wrote by Chrissy, in it she tells me what a wonderful life she had, and how wonderful it was being loved by me, and all the special little things I did just for her.....I'm crying now thinking of it. I also treasure a letter I received from an animal minister, it was so sweet and full of hope that love and 'us' would never end, she was so comforting. Do whatever it takes to make you feel a little better. Distract yourself from going to those dark places, from getting so overwhelmed and lonely. It takes a lot of effort to live again, but it all starts with one little step and then another. With a little help along the way.....