hi all,
first, let me apologize for how long this post is. it is goldies story.
i'm new here and at my wits end. i have been surfing this site now for over a month and am now about to lose it.
i am a very patient person when it comes to animals and i'm pretty good at trying to out think them, however i have run into a problem that i cannot continue to put up with.
i adopted an old cat in october of last year because my other cats sister had crossed the bridge and i felt she was lonely. (liza) the cat i already had is the most easy going cat i've ever seen. she just goes along with the program no matter what. anyhow, the new cat (goldie, that was her name when we got her) is now 13. liza is 12.
so, the issue is that goldie has obviously been abused through out her life and i'm sure of it because the second keeper of goldie told me the first one's child use to abuse goldie so the mother gave goldie to the second keeper. well, the second keeper was not abusive (i don't think) however, he got a divorce and his wife had to keep goldie until they could find her a new home. from conversations with the man and getting vet charts, there was another cat in the mans house that took precedence over goldie. he said, his wife never forgave him for getting goldie. the vet charts showed where those people let goldie live with an abscess tooth for almost a year and a half. when i first got her she only weight 7 lbs 4 oz. she is now 8lbs 10 oz. the charts also revealed that may 2008 she was at the vet for front leg trauma. they gave her medicam. pretty serious stuff. i think she was struck and fell from a distance by the wife.
ok, so in the beginning she peed everywhere. i secluded her to one room and got a big dog cage and put her litter box in the cage with her and her water and food and her own little fleece bed. she was in the cage back and forth for at least 2 months. she'd do good, then she'd fail again. we also found that she has ibd, (now on special diet) and the beginnings of kidney issues (which is what my other cat the one now gone had). so, antibiotics and more love. this cat was so abused that you could hardly touch her. (i think the wife was abusing goldie for peeing from separation anxiety). goldie has bit me in the face two times and once on the side of my eye and several times in other places on my body. (i told you i had a lot of patience) also, i had to give goldie mertazipine because she had such a messed up stomach and refused to eat. she is now eating (recently not as much). i know when she doesn't feel good because she stays upstairs. i have integrated her to the downstairs and with my other cat. (she tolerates liza, though liza doesn't care about her)
one of the entries on the vet chart was that goldie was uncontrollable. i guess if you don't know how to deal with angry animals she could be a real problem. i also took goldie in for a dental cleaning (i asked for sevoflourane) as they aren't under as long. however, i found out that the vet was unable to do the cleaning because goldies blood pressure dropped really low, like two times. during trying to clean her teeth. they had to stop the procedure. goldie even bit the technician. boy that was fun, she had to be quarantined at my house. the county was calling every few days. i had to get the rabies papers from the vet in another state. you just can't believe what i have been through with this cat.
i feel so sorry for her because i know how abused her life has been however, i am really at my wits end. i have had her on antibiotics several times, even the round of shots of anitbiotics. i know she keeps getting urinary infections common with kidney issues. i know she has separation anxiety (peeing on rugs or what ever else when you leave the house) there are no rugs down anywhere in my house now. thank goodness we have hardwood floors. i have 3 litter boxes. goldie has two of them in upstairs and downstairs in the house. she even has two of the really nice cat beds (side by side) upstairs. she has recently decided that she is going to start peeing in one of them. i found the evidence this morning. by the way, the litter box is 15 feet away.
i know her creatinine is just over normal and her bun is on the high side of normal. i know the signs very well, however i am losing it with the peeing everywhere. i cannot let her ruin my house completely.
should i put her back to the cage, give her more antibiotics? i feel so stressed out about having to put her to sleep. i feel like we are her last chance. that she deserves to be loved, really loved for once in her life. she has gotten to the point where she actually lets me pet her with out growling. she plays with her catnip toys (the other people said she never had toys with them) she sleeps with us. she doesn't see real well now and if she can't jump up on the bed, she sleeps beside the bed on the only rug left in the house like a dog would. we do have the rest of the house lit up at night like new york city with night lights so i know she can see how to get to her box.
any help someone can offer about strategic ways to deal with her peeing everywhere is greatly appreciated. again, i'm realy sorry for the length of this post. however, i felt it important for you to get to know goldie somewhat and some of the things i have tried.
thank goodness, i have a very patient husband.
thank you
cyn
first, let me apologize for how long this post is. it is goldies story.
i'm new here and at my wits end. i have been surfing this site now for over a month and am now about to lose it.
i am a very patient person when it comes to animals and i'm pretty good at trying to out think them, however i have run into a problem that i cannot continue to put up with.
i adopted an old cat in october of last year because my other cats sister had crossed the bridge and i felt she was lonely. (liza) the cat i already had is the most easy going cat i've ever seen. she just goes along with the program no matter what. anyhow, the new cat (goldie, that was her name when we got her) is now 13. liza is 12.
so, the issue is that goldie has obviously been abused through out her life and i'm sure of it because the second keeper of goldie told me the first one's child use to abuse goldie so the mother gave goldie to the second keeper. well, the second keeper was not abusive (i don't think) however, he got a divorce and his wife had to keep goldie until they could find her a new home. from conversations with the man and getting vet charts, there was another cat in the mans house that took precedence over goldie. he said, his wife never forgave him for getting goldie. the vet charts showed where those people let goldie live with an abscess tooth for almost a year and a half. when i first got her she only weight 7 lbs 4 oz. she is now 8lbs 10 oz. the charts also revealed that may 2008 she was at the vet for front leg trauma. they gave her medicam. pretty serious stuff. i think she was struck and fell from a distance by the wife.
ok, so in the beginning she peed everywhere. i secluded her to one room and got a big dog cage and put her litter box in the cage with her and her water and food and her own little fleece bed. she was in the cage back and forth for at least 2 months. she'd do good, then she'd fail again. we also found that she has ibd, (now on special diet) and the beginnings of kidney issues (which is what my other cat the one now gone had). so, antibiotics and more love. this cat was so abused that you could hardly touch her. (i think the wife was abusing goldie for peeing from separation anxiety). goldie has bit me in the face two times and once on the side of my eye and several times in other places on my body. (i told you i had a lot of patience) also, i had to give goldie mertazipine because she had such a messed up stomach and refused to eat. she is now eating (recently not as much). i know when she doesn't feel good because she stays upstairs. i have integrated her to the downstairs and with my other cat. (she tolerates liza, though liza doesn't care about her)
one of the entries on the vet chart was that goldie was uncontrollable. i guess if you don't know how to deal with angry animals she could be a real problem. i also took goldie in for a dental cleaning (i asked for sevoflourane) as they aren't under as long. however, i found out that the vet was unable to do the cleaning because goldies blood pressure dropped really low, like two times. during trying to clean her teeth. they had to stop the procedure. goldie even bit the technician. boy that was fun, she had to be quarantined at my house. the county was calling every few days. i had to get the rabies papers from the vet in another state. you just can't believe what i have been through with this cat.
i feel so sorry for her because i know how abused her life has been however, i am really at my wits end. i have had her on antibiotics several times, even the round of shots of anitbiotics. i know she keeps getting urinary infections common with kidney issues. i know she has separation anxiety (peeing on rugs or what ever else when you leave the house) there are no rugs down anywhere in my house now. thank goodness we have hardwood floors. i have 3 litter boxes. goldie has two of them in upstairs and downstairs in the house. she even has two of the really nice cat beds (side by side) upstairs. she has recently decided that she is going to start peeing in one of them. i found the evidence this morning. by the way, the litter box is 15 feet away.
i know her creatinine is just over normal and her bun is on the high side of normal. i know the signs very well, however i am losing it with the peeing everywhere. i cannot let her ruin my house completely.
should i put her back to the cage, give her more antibiotics? i feel so stressed out about having to put her to sleep. i feel like we are her last chance. that she deserves to be loved, really loved for once in her life. she has gotten to the point where she actually lets me pet her with out growling. she plays with her catnip toys (the other people said she never had toys with them) she sleeps with us. she doesn't see real well now and if she can't jump up on the bed, she sleeps beside the bed on the only rug left in the house like a dog would. we do have the rest of the house lit up at night like new york city with night lights so i know she can see how to get to her box.
any help someone can offer about strategic ways to deal with her peeing everywhere is greatly appreciated. again, i'm realy sorry for the length of this post. however, i felt it important for you to get to know goldie somewhat and some of the things i have tried.
thank goodness, i have a very patient husband.
thank you
cyn