Now that I know what I have to do as far as care and feeding, and I have a shelter up, I want to know what to do to make the cat and her kittens more people friendly in case I find someone who wants them. The mother allows people to pet her, but not pick her up, and if you walk fast she gets scared thinking your chasing her, but she sits on my back steps. The kittens dont allow me to pet them, but they approach me when it's food time, and meow at me to feed them. They both sit on my doorstep, but only when there mom is not in the yard. I gave them a catnip toy with feathers, they loved it, but it quickly got dirty and they lost it in the neighborhood somewhere. Will they be more friendly after they are fixed, or is that just a rumor? Anything else I should do, I feed them when they are about a foot away from me, would holding a piece of turkey in my hand make them come up to me? Any advice would be helpful.