just food for thought...i battled this same problem (too freakin bad it ended up being the PERFECT DRESS, CEREMONY, ETC.. WRONG MAN! so sad!). I got to the point of being so stressed trying to please EVERYONE, family, mom, dad, friends, etc... (keep in mind also that people act weirdo sometimes....u find out who your real friends are at most major life events). We had reserved the church, the reception, all of it. One day i just snapped, I picked up the phone, BAWLING, called "him" (ugh) and said "how important is the actual wedding to you"? His response was "not at all". I said whats our most favorite place in the world, Disneyworld right.....and that was it, we picked up the phone and Disney took care of the rest. We told them about how much we could spend and they gave us package options, it was so easy and wonderful. It seriously was a PERFECT setting, the price wasnt bad like one may think being that its Disney (now im sure if we did it at that wedding pavillion it would have been but sunset pointe outside was amazing!). We married at the Polynesian Resort at Sunset Pointe with pictures showing cinderellas castle at sunset in the background as well as the lake and their beautiful landscape. They took wonderful pictures all throughout the hotel (think hawaii setting) like in front of the waterfalls, etc.. They had a violinist play the music as I came out and it was just us and the preacher and a few on hand disney employees. They provided the beautiful boquets, cake, limo (or horse drawn carriage), pictures, minister who counseled us prior to so that it wasnt so informal. It seriously couldnt have been more perfect and we saved THOUSANDS and made sure to get lots of picts (could have done the video but opted not to) and the family was just as happy that we did that. Mom and dad started to come but I cant remember, something came up at the last minute but even still....it was the MOST WONDERFUL, intimate, beautiful wedding ever and although my biggest fear was id regret not doing it local but never once did i have regrets.