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A little background...My brother in law took in Belle 3 years ago. She was a declawed stray and was found wandering in an apartment complex he worked at. He took her in with no proper introduction to the house, which has 2 dogs. Belle hated the dogs which led to her peeing on everything and occasionally throwing up her food. My sister and brother in law finally had enough and wanted to get rid of her. I decided to take her to my house to see if that would be a better fit for her. I have a cat that I've had for 14 years, Moe, so I knew this was going to be tricky, but I wanted to try and make it work. I brought Belle over on Sunday and set up her sanctuary room in the bathroom. Everything she needs is in there. For the first day she was fine, she was using the litter box, etc. But she's puked up her food a few times since then. I go into the bathroom to give her some love and then when I try to leave she tries to run out of the room, once I do leave, she meows at the door for a really long time. I work full time so there was one day that she was stuck in the sanctuary room for 12 hours, which I just don't feel is fair for her. I've let her out of the room a few times to explore the house, but I'm constantly watching her because I'm afraid she's going to pee on something. And I bought Belle a pheromone collar to try and calm her down, but I have no idea if it's working or not, and they've said that it takes time. I've tried feeding the 2 cats by the door and even fed them in the same room last night. They were doing ok, but then Belle (the new cat) followed Moe (my 14 year old) and attacked her.
The more I think about this situation, the more I feel like I really don't have the time and resources available to give this cat a good home. It's not fair for her to be stuck in a bathroom for hours at a time when she clearly doesn't want to be in there. I'm doing my best to try and be patient with this situation, but at this point I feel like I'm prolonging the inevitable. I'm just looking for some advice on what to do. I feel horrible and stressed about this situation, I can only imagine how she feels. I know that Belle really needs to be the only animal for someone.
I'm just looking for some advice and suggestions on what to do. This is tearing me up.
The more I think about this situation, the more I feel like I really don't have the time and resources available to give this cat a good home. It's not fair for her to be stuck in a bathroom for hours at a time when she clearly doesn't want to be in there. I'm doing my best to try and be patient with this situation, but at this point I feel like I'm prolonging the inevitable. I'm just looking for some advice on what to do. I feel horrible and stressed about this situation, I can only imagine how she feels. I know that Belle really needs to be the only animal for someone.
I'm just looking for some advice and suggestions on what to do. This is tearing me up.