Hi
I was wondering if any of you have friends who cancel out on you a lot and how you handle it. I have a friend who does that, and for not big reasons, stuff like "Im too tired". I am even suspicious that she might be using substances and her "I'm too tired" might be due to that. Cause even when I am tired I like to see my friends.
It's not every time at all. But more than I am used to, to where I always now consider my plans with her tentative.
part of me wants to just bail on HER permantly but we have mutual friends and the other times we do have a pleasant time. So I am confused.
I was wondering if any of you have friends who cancel out on you a lot and how you handle it. I have a friend who does that, and for not big reasons, stuff like "Im too tired". I am even suspicious that she might be using substances and her "I'm too tired" might be due to that. Cause even when I am tired I like to see my friends.
It's not every time at all. But more than I am used to, to where I always now consider my plans with her tentative.
part of me wants to just bail on HER permantly but we have mutual friends and the other times we do have a pleasant time. So I am confused.