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Foster asking for me to bring kitten back
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I have only skimmed through this thread, but if this woman was fostering for a shelter, you definitely should let the shelter know the situation. And I don't think they should allow any more cats to be fostered by her. I understand falling in love with a cat, but what she has been doing isn't reasonable in any way.
Awww. Maxi is adorable! She looks very happy in her new home. What a stunner she will be when she's grown!
She's adorable!
Your little baby is absolutely gorgeous!! a really cutie, sweetie...Maxi, I love that name.. It seems to fit her to a "T"
I have just read through this entire thread. I did post a comment as I went along, but after reading all of it, well, I have to respond...
You did good with that last message to this raving maniac.. ok, I am blunt.. She wants a cat, whom she 'fell in love with' to be uprooted from a wonderful home, so SHE can have it and become a 'foster fail'... No Way!
As has been advised, please block her from text messaging you, phone calling you, and e-mailing you.. do not read or respond to any of her future messages.. she is bullying you...
I volunteer at a humane society. If I were you, I would talk to the president of the humane society where this 'foster' volunteers... she sounds unstable. They would want to know that.. She really cannot be trusted to be a person who is in charge of adoptions or fosters.. they would want to know the entire situation.. It is not to get her in trouble, but it is in the benefit of the humane society to realize how this woman is acting. Who knows what may come up with any future adoptions/fosters where she is involved in..
and please try to move on... if this woman is bad mouthing you to your friend, please try to ignore the situation and just love your new baby.. Your friend knows both of you so she should not be forced to take sides...
Hug, cuddle, and kiss little Maxi.... never let her go!!
I have just read through this entire thread. I did post a comment as I went along, but after reading all of it, well, I have to respond...
You did good with that last message to this raving maniac.. ok, I am blunt.. She wants a cat, whom she 'fell in love with' to be uprooted from a wonderful home, so SHE can have it and become a 'foster fail'... No Way!
As has been advised, please block her from text messaging you, phone calling you, and e-mailing you.. do not read or respond to any of her future messages.. she is bullying you...
I volunteer at a humane society. If I were you, I would talk to the president of the humane society where this 'foster' volunteers... she sounds unstable. They would want to know that.. She really cannot be trusted to be a person who is in charge of adoptions or fosters.. they would want to know the entire situation.. It is not to get her in trouble, but it is in the benefit of the humane society to realize how this woman is acting. Who knows what may come up with any future adoptions/fosters where she is involved in..
and please try to move on... if this woman is bad mouthing you to your friend, please try to ignore the situation and just love your new baby.. Your friend knows both of you so she should not be forced to take sides...
Hug, cuddle, and kiss little Maxi.... never let her go!!
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Ditto, she is not acting in a rational or stable manner. Go on with your life and your new precious baby, Maxi. She's absolutely darling.
She's a beautiful kitten, absolutely adorable!
I don't think you have done anything wrong at all @Kellyyfaber You've already been a lot nicer and more tolerant of this woman than you needed to be. As long as the shelter know the situation, so they can be careful about letting her foster in the future, I think you should forget all about her and get on with life with your new kitten.
I don't think you have done anything wrong at all @Kellyyfaber You've already been a lot nicer and more tolerant of this woman than you needed to be. As long as the shelter know the situation, so they can be careful about letting her foster in the future, I think you should forget all about her and get on with life with your new kitten.
She is precious! What a cutie! Hi Maxi!
I did the same thing last year. Fostered a cat who had 3 kittens. No intention to keep any of them. Fell in love with the orange male & could not give him to someone else. Even when he went to be spayed I called the shelter to be sure nobody stole off with him. I drove them nuts!
