My goodness, what a healthy looking cat, congratulations, it sounds like your patience paid off!
My newest kitty, Henry, is 8 years old and was in a shelter since he was 4 months old. He has no idea what play is. He's not a feral but he really wasn't socialized at all. He'll sit and watch me play with the girls with their wand toys and show no interest whatsoever. He does seem to like small catnip toys like mice and such and he will bring them into his little cave (a large plastic tote on it's side with a soft blanket in it) but he doesn't "play" with them. I've had him 3 months and he just started taking food from me recently. he will not eat his meals with the door to his safe room open though. Baby steps. They move at their own pace and there's not much we can do other than be patient and love them the way they are and when they are ready to move forward, even just a little, we show them more patience and love. Patience is indeed your best friend.
Remember, too, because she may not have been well-socialized to humans, she may have no idea what you mean when you try to play with her. Wands toys work, as do bribes as described above by ShawdowsRescue.
I know we sound redundant but patience is your best friend now. Hang in there.
Since 4 months how is that possible!? That's just so sad
My newest kitty, Henry, is 8 years old and was in a shelter since he was 4 months old. He has no idea what play is. He's not a feral but he really wasn't socialized at all. He'll sit and watch me play with the girls with their wand toys and show no interest whatsoever. He does seem to like small catnip toys like mice and such and he will bring them into his little cave (a large plastic tote on it's side with a soft blanket in it) but he doesn't "play" with them. I've had him 3 months and he just started taking food from me recently. he will not eat his meals with the door to his safe room open though. Baby steps. They move at their own pace and there's not much we can do other than be patient and love them the way they are and when they are ready to move forward, even just a little, we show them more patience and love. Patience is indeed your best friend.
It really is. he's come a long way since he's been with us and has become very affectionate.
Since 4 months how is that possible!? That's just so sad