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Thank you so much xxMy condolences on the unfortunate loss of your kitty.
Thank you so much xxMy condolences on the unfortunate loss of your kitty.
Such beautiful words of comfort. Ditto to all you have said. [emoji]10084[/emoji]️Time and keeping busy were the only things that helped me, my Chrissy died three years ago and I still tear up when I think of her. Time is the only thing that softens the edges, it takes a good year to really start feeling good again. Those first months are horrible, I truly thought I was losing it. If I didn't have the support of my husband and my other little ones who needed me, I would still be a wreck. Just concentrate on how you would want your lost one to act if it had been you that went away, you would want only the very best for them and for them to be happy again, they would want no different because they love you so much. You know how much of a bond you have with them, that can never be taken from you. Their physical bodies are no more, but the 'essence' that was truly them will live on forever in your heart and in your precious memories. Even though the pain of losing them matches the love we feel, it is still better to have had them and loved them in our lives, it made us complete. To have never known them and never to have experienced what they brought into our lives would have been so much worse. So mourn your loss, it is the only thing to do when a big part of our lives is gone, but hold onto the love that still lives on in your heart, and bring in happiness and sunshine once again when you are able, for that is where they dwell now, and they need to know that you are celebrating the love and happiness you shared once again. My heart goes out to you, I truly know your pain and I want you to know that many people care and want to help in any way we can. Hang in there and let their love surround you and comfort you in your time of grief.
I am so upset today. It's been four months since Fella and Lady Girl died, but today driving home from work I was crying like the day they left me. Especially my little girl. I can't believe how much I miss her. It's effecting me so bad that I don't feel it's normal sometimes. I do notice when I speak to my friends that are not cat people they don't seem to understand. I do keep busy, but there are days I feel so depressed that I cry like a baby. I miss them so much! I would love to get another cat but I have a 16 year old cat that I don't want to get upset.
Yes, your babies are there watching over you! My Rizzo comes on to my bed at night. I don't feel him walk on the bed anymore but I know he still comes. Of course, you will see them again; in this life or on the other side.Today is 6 months that Fella passed and the 4th will be Little Girl. I can't believe how sad I am.. still! I do feel a little better, but I miss them so much! Every time I see a rainbow I think they are there with me. Rest in peace my angels.
They are always with you. Today is 4 months since our precious ginger boy Oglum passed. We still miss him and expect to see him greet us when we come home. Sending you love and hugs xxxToday is 6 months that Fella passed and the 4th will be Little Girl. I can't believe how sad I am.. still! I do feel a little better, but I miss them so much! Every time I see a rainbow I think they are there with me. Rest in peace my angels.
HugsI put up my Christmas tree. Im crying[emoji]128557[/emoji]. I put fella and littlgirl pictures in a Christmas ornaments. my first Christmas without them. It's been 11 Months and I am so heart broken.