Wow, I can relate to this message! I quit dating when I was 30, decided to try again at 39, met my future dh on a forum, and despite his living over 3,000 miles away and being almost 14 years younger than I, we married within the year. First marriage for us both, and I am so very happy I didn't settle, and waited for this meant for me fellow.Originally Posted by 3calicos
I want to tell you about my DH because it might help you. DH stopped dating when he was 26 years old. He had been hurt, badly and until he was 43 he did not find a woman he found attractive and good enough to take home... That woman was me. We got married when he was 44 years old and he is now 45 (he turned 45 one month after we were married). It was both our first marriage. He couldn't be happier... and guess what? He's GLAD he had to wait so long for me... He learned a lot about himself and about life in that time. It may seem like the wait is long... but guess what? It is better than settling for someone you wouldn't want to spend your life with, that's the truth, because if you just settled you would be miserable.
And in case you are wondering... I was 24 when we married... Yes, that's a full 20 years difference. I don't care, don't mind and it really doesn't bother me. He's my best friend, the best man I could ask for... There is NOTHING wrong with liking people younger than you. I happen to like people older than me that's all. (Ya know which actor I think is hot? Michaell Caine... hehehe)
I told you my DH's story to let you know... she's there... she just maybe taking her time. God just might be making sure you REALLY want her is all
Best of Luck hon... and if you need anyone to talk to let me know, if you prefer to talk to my DH I'm sure he wouldn't mind encouraging you.
Sorry about that, DH is "dear husband"Originally Posted by Whisky'sDad
I'm sorry, but what is DH?
Not the Modesto/Merced area but the San Luis Obispo area. And yes we are going to hit over a 100 hear this week. Not to uncommon for us.Originally Posted by Whisky'sDad
5 hours, huh? That would make you in Merced/Modesto area, right? SF, maybe?
You are kidding?? I LOVE the SLO area. I lived there in '91 with my girlfriend while attending Cuesta College. My mom and stepdad live in Paso. Beautiful area. Morro Bay ROCKS!!!Originally Posted by greycat2
Not the Modesto/Merced area but the San Luis Obispo area. And yes we are going to hit over a 100 hear this week. Not to uncommon for us.
5 hours considering the LA traffic - 3 to 4 if good.
oh you thread hussy!Originally Posted by Meowsas
Graycat and whiskeys Dad..this is getting interesting.
Hummmmmmmm, if you guys PM eachother, please let us know what was said!Originally Posted by Meowsas
Graycat and whiskeys Dad..this is getting interesting.
Originally Posted by Moniece
I say you two aren't too far from eachother and what would it hurt to just see if you have the same ideas and things in common?Oh yes and give us an update once in a while.Moniece