Hi there,
I have an elderly cat (maybe 14 years old or so? I got her when she was full grown) who has arthritis in her front elbows. She's a pretty big kitty -- 14 pounds -- has always been overweight but our attempts to help her lose weight have resulted in such misery for her and us that we gave up. (She meows in the middle of the night, etc. We live in an apartment, and she's part siamese so when she meows I'm pretty sure our neighbors know about it.) I got her litterboxes that are pretty large with high sides except on the side of entry, where there is a sort of dip to make it easy for her to climb into.
Unfortunately, sometimes she climbs in and does her business right away, and I think her joints are just too achy to squat anymore so sometimes the pee goes straight out of the litterbox onto the floor. This is almost a daily occurrence now. When she pees, she pees a LOT, too.
I am pregnant and so hubby is on litterbox duty (under protest. he is not a big fan of my cats). He has had it with this situation and is ready to put her down. He thinks she is suffering and that maybe her kidneys are going since she urinates so much. This is now a major point of resentment for him and is causing marital issues.
We just had her into the vet a few months ago and the vet didn't think there was much wrong with her beyond her joints. She is a very happy, sweet and lovey cat that likes to sleep with us. I have had animals all my life and have seen a lot of sick and suffering animals, too. I know her joints are achy, but we humans don't give up the ghost when our joints start aching. We still find ways to live happily. I feel that is is terribly wrong to put down a cat without a very, very good reason, and I don't see how we can possibly rehome a cat like her (not that I want to, but I also would like my marriage to stay intact and my husband to stop being so angry).
I've read about making your own litterbox out of large Rubbermaid bins and just cutting a square out of the side to allow for easy entry/exit. This would give me a larger litterbox, but I can't see how she wouldn't just pee over the side of the entry like she does now. The current litterboxes have plenty of room!
Any ideas? I am so sad and tired.
I have an elderly cat (maybe 14 years old or so? I got her when she was full grown) who has arthritis in her front elbows. She's a pretty big kitty -- 14 pounds -- has always been overweight but our attempts to help her lose weight have resulted in such misery for her and us that we gave up. (She meows in the middle of the night, etc. We live in an apartment, and she's part siamese so when she meows I'm pretty sure our neighbors know about it.) I got her litterboxes that are pretty large with high sides except on the side of entry, where there is a sort of dip to make it easy for her to climb into.
Unfortunately, sometimes she climbs in and does her business right away, and I think her joints are just too achy to squat anymore so sometimes the pee goes straight out of the litterbox onto the floor. This is almost a daily occurrence now. When she pees, she pees a LOT, too.
I am pregnant and so hubby is on litterbox duty (under protest. he is not a big fan of my cats). He has had it with this situation and is ready to put her down. He thinks she is suffering and that maybe her kidneys are going since she urinates so much. This is now a major point of resentment for him and is causing marital issues.
We just had her into the vet a few months ago and the vet didn't think there was much wrong with her beyond her joints. She is a very happy, sweet and lovey cat that likes to sleep with us. I have had animals all my life and have seen a lot of sick and suffering animals, too. I know her joints are achy, but we humans don't give up the ghost when our joints start aching. We still find ways to live happily. I feel that is is terribly wrong to put down a cat without a very, very good reason, and I don't see how we can possibly rehome a cat like her (not that I want to, but I also would like my marriage to stay intact and my husband to stop being so angry).
I've read about making your own litterbox out of large Rubbermaid bins and just cutting a square out of the side to allow for easy entry/exit. This would give me a larger litterbox, but I can't see how she wouldn't just pee over the side of the entry like she does now. The current litterboxes have plenty of room!
Any ideas? I am so sad and tired.