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Hello everyone,
I adopted an older cat from a rescue centre a month ago. I think he is about 8 years old and we were told he had been living outdoors as a stray, the people at the rescue place said he was a friendly cat and should be OK in our household, which can be quite noisy and chaotic as we have young children.
Well we kept puss indoors for the first few weeks as directed, and he was a bit shy but generally OK, purring at us and letting us stoke him and even sleeping on my bed. He didn't seem to want to explore the house very much and spent most of the time in the upstairs bedroom, I thought he just needed time to settle in at that stage.
However a few weeks later we introduced puss to his catflap and let him go out, and the problem is that he doesn't want to come back in. He has set up "camp" in some bushes in the garden and just stays there all day. When I call him he always comes in straight away and has something to eat and purrs and lets me stroke him and seems quite happy, however as soon as he sees or hears anyone else (my husband or two daughters) he just shoots straight back out again and stays there. I know that he creeps back in again at night after we have gone to bed as I have found him in the kitchen/diner a few times. Otherwise he is just out there in the bushes in all weather. He never attempts to go into any of the other rooms of the house and won't go upstairs anymore (even though this was his original hideout)
Instead of getting used to us and getting less timid, he seem to be going the opposite way and I just don't know what to do, I don't know if he feels happier being out doors as it's what he knows, but am worried about him sitting out there in all weathers. I just don't understand what he doesn't want to come back in anymore when he spent the first few weeks indoors and seemed fine with us.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make him want to come into the house and be part of our family? Is it worth getting some of the cat calming plug ins perhaps? I am starting to despair that he is never going to want to come in. Any advice much appreciated. Thank you.
I adopted an older cat from a rescue centre a month ago. I think he is about 8 years old and we were told he had been living outdoors as a stray, the people at the rescue place said he was a friendly cat and should be OK in our household, which can be quite noisy and chaotic as we have young children.
Well we kept puss indoors for the first few weeks as directed, and he was a bit shy but generally OK, purring at us and letting us stoke him and even sleeping on my bed. He didn't seem to want to explore the house very much and spent most of the time in the upstairs bedroom, I thought he just needed time to settle in at that stage.
However a few weeks later we introduced puss to his catflap and let him go out, and the problem is that he doesn't want to come back in. He has set up "camp" in some bushes in the garden and just stays there all day. When I call him he always comes in straight away and has something to eat and purrs and lets me stroke him and seems quite happy, however as soon as he sees or hears anyone else (my husband or two daughters) he just shoots straight back out again and stays there. I know that he creeps back in again at night after we have gone to bed as I have found him in the kitchen/diner a few times. Otherwise he is just out there in the bushes in all weather. He never attempts to go into any of the other rooms of the house and won't go upstairs anymore (even though this was his original hideout)
Instead of getting used to us and getting less timid, he seem to be going the opposite way and I just don't know what to do, I don't know if he feels happier being out doors as it's what he knows, but am worried about him sitting out there in all weathers. I just don't understand what he doesn't want to come back in anymore when he spent the first few weeks indoors and seemed fine with us.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make him want to come into the house and be part of our family? Is it worth getting some of the cat calming plug ins perhaps? I am starting to despair that he is never going to want to come in. Any advice much appreciated. Thank you.