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Background: So it's been 5 days since I picked up a male cat who is one year old. I don't have any previous experience owning a cat but decided I wanted to change it. The cat was taken in by the family when he was a kitten and has been with them ever since. When I went over to visit him, he was pretty nervous but let me pet him and at one point hold him even though I could tell he clearly prefer I don't. But seeing how he interacted with his family and how was friendly I decided to bring him home with me.
The past week: So when I first brought him home he shot under my bed which I was already prepared for. So I spent the next couple of days in my room playing classical and then just soft rock music for him. Every once in a while I would just sit down on the floor at the edge of the bed and talk to him. I even played my ukulele and sang for him at one point. Anyways by the 2nd day I began hearing him wonder around my bed at night so on the 3rd day I kept my lamp on and the moment I went to bed he came out to wander around. I even got up at one point and he let me pet him a lot and pick him up. But every day before the sun comes up he goes right back into hiding. I guess I was starting to loose my patience because I ended up taking out my bed frame and now my bed is on the floor so he can't hide under the bed anymore. When I did this and woke up the next day I found him hiding in his litterbox I tried to get him out bu facing one end of his tiny cat tree against the wall so there was only 1 entrance. When he saw this he immediately left the litterbox and went inside and has been there ever since. Since I brought him home even though he remains in his hiding place during the day time he lets me pet him and even purrs. Since he's been hiding in his cat tree, every once in a while I would sit down next to him, pet him, talk to him, and he even started eating the treats I give him, but I don't know what to do. Should I simply just ignore him until he comes out on his own and approaches me during the day time? Should I just continue to sit next to him while he hides and give him treats?
Oh and recently the past couple of nights he's been scratching at my door and meowing but I don't want him to explore the rest of my house until he is completely comfortable in my room. Is that the wrong way to approach this and just let him explore the whole house?
In short: New cat, hiding, but lets me pet him. Should I ignore him or continue petting him / occasionally give him treats?
I really appreciate any feedback. I think I'm slowly losing my patience but hopefully you guys can give me new hope
The past week: So when I first brought him home he shot under my bed which I was already prepared for. So I spent the next couple of days in my room playing classical and then just soft rock music for him. Every once in a while I would just sit down on the floor at the edge of the bed and talk to him. I even played my ukulele and sang for him at one point. Anyways by the 2nd day I began hearing him wonder around my bed at night so on the 3rd day I kept my lamp on and the moment I went to bed he came out to wander around. I even got up at one point and he let me pet him a lot and pick him up. But every day before the sun comes up he goes right back into hiding. I guess I was starting to loose my patience because I ended up taking out my bed frame and now my bed is on the floor so he can't hide under the bed anymore. When I did this and woke up the next day I found him hiding in his litterbox I tried to get him out bu facing one end of his tiny cat tree against the wall so there was only 1 entrance. When he saw this he immediately left the litterbox and went inside and has been there ever since. Since I brought him home even though he remains in his hiding place during the day time he lets me pet him and even purrs. Since he's been hiding in his cat tree, every once in a while I would sit down next to him, pet him, talk to him, and he even started eating the treats I give him, but I don't know what to do. Should I simply just ignore him until he comes out on his own and approaches me during the day time? Should I just continue to sit next to him while he hides and give him treats?
Oh and recently the past couple of nights he's been scratching at my door and meowing but I don't want him to explore the rest of my house until he is completely comfortable in my room. Is that the wrong way to approach this and just let him explore the whole house?
In short: New cat, hiding, but lets me pet him. Should I ignore him or continue petting him / occasionally give him treats?
I really appreciate any feedback. I think I'm slowly losing my patience but hopefully you guys can give me new hope