Yup all the above.
She's reached that age where she can pretty much make decisions on her own. She's got to learn on her own -despite all your lessons- that people really do have bad things happen to them when they do bad things.
Heck I remember 'shoplifting' at her age...I did it once, I was a good kid, A and B student but I did it to try and fit into a certain group. The same week I did it, one of the peers was arrested and prosecuted for shoplifting. I never did it again.
She's reached that age where she can pretty much make decisions on her own. She's got to learn on her own -despite all your lessons- that people really do have bad things happen to them when they do bad things.
Heck I remember 'shoplifting' at her age...I did it once, I was a good kid, A and B student but I did it to try and fit into a certain group. The same week I did it, one of the peers was arrested and prosecuted for shoplifting. I never did it again.