I've had Poppy since she was 8 weeks old. She suddenly started being unaffectionate at about 4 months and is now 9 months old. She won't sit on my lap, she doesn't like being picked up (although tolerates it) and sometimes runs away from me. it really upsets me when she just lies under the bed out of my reach or on the floor on the other side of the room just staring. I have to bribe her up on the bed mostly. The only time she wants a cuddle is every night between 1 and 3am when she climbs on me, lies full length and I'm allowed to stroke her and croon to her and then she jumps off like nothing happened - sometimes I get it twice! I have Milo (3 months) who she has taken to very well and he is more affectionate although I think this makes her jealous? I've had him since end November.
I've heard about the ignoring thing where I don't touch her and wait for her to come to me but it's hard - she's always chirruping for attention - and also I don't want to play with Milo and ignore her (although she seems to have forgotten how to play). Anyone think I should try this technique?
Any help would be great - I'm starting to think she may be better off in a different household and that just upsets me. Btw I live on my own and work all day, hence getting Milo.
I've heard about the ignoring thing where I don't touch her and wait for her to come to me but it's hard - she's always chirruping for attention - and also I don't want to play with Milo and ignore her (although she seems to have forgotten how to play). Anyone think I should try this technique?
Any help would be great - I'm starting to think she may be better off in a different household and that just upsets me. Btw I live on my own and work all day, hence getting Milo.