My husband, son and I just got back from a two day trip. We had our neighbor look over our three cats while we were gone. This happens at least three times a year. The problem is, every time we have returned, my Siamese cross female kitty (who has been with us the longest), seems distant. Usually she is very cuddly with me and we are very close. She will still follow me around when we get back but isn't as inclined to approach me for pets, etc. Is this common? Do cat's hold grudges against us when we leave them? I am a stay at home mom also, so I am rarely away from her unless we leave town.