I have nothing really to add...you've received good advice. What I would like to say is that if you can, try seeing a counselor on your own. It may not save the marriage, but it might help you through the rougher times. And they can get downright rough. It cannot hurt to learn how to cope better through this.
As for him, if he disrespects you enough to go and have an affair, then he isn't worth you, your time, your love, and your attention. Fat lot of good that does right now, but there will come a point where you will realize this. You're going to hurt - a whole lot - but I promise you it will get better. You will survive this, you will make it through this.
Hugs to you.
Best-
Michele
As for him, if he disrespects you enough to go and have an affair, then he isn't worth you, your time, your love, and your attention. Fat lot of good that does right now, but there will come a point where you will realize this. You're going to hurt - a whole lot - but I promise you it will get better. You will survive this, you will make it through this.
Hugs to you.
Best-
Michele