Yesterday, as I was walking out the door to take my son, Cameron to school (he's in afternoon Kindergarten), one of his classmates was walking by with his mom, and noticed that Cameron lived in the same complex as he did.
So, this morning, at 8:30, he and his mom come knocking at my door. The kid asked if Cam could play, and when I said he was sleeping, his mom said, "See? I told you they would still be alsleep!"
I dont get it!! WHY on earth did she let the kid come down here if she knew we would most likely be alsleep?? Which we were!
The real thing about this is..I know that this wont be the last time he comes to try & play with Cam. But... I know who this kid is... he is a bigger kid, alot more pushy, and was a bit mean to Cam right around the time school started. His family (I percieve) seems a bit shady, from what I see(you know when you just have a 'feeling' about someone?).
I guess what I'm trying to say here is.. I really dont want Cam playing with this child outside of school. I dont want him in my home, or especially, I dont want Cam in their home! SO, how do I decline and say no, without looking like a total uptight B****? Will I have to come up with some different excuse everytime the kid comes to my door?
So, this morning, at 8:30, he and his mom come knocking at my door. The kid asked if Cam could play, and when I said he was sleeping, his mom said, "See? I told you they would still be alsleep!"
The real thing about this is..I know that this wont be the last time he comes to try & play with Cam. But... I know who this kid is... he is a bigger kid, alot more pushy, and was a bit mean to Cam right around the time school started. His family (I percieve) seems a bit shady, from what I see(you know when you just have a 'feeling' about someone?).
I guess what I'm trying to say here is.. I really dont want Cam playing with this child outside of school. I dont want him in my home, or especially, I dont want Cam in their home! SO, how do I decline and say no, without looking like a total uptight B****? Will I have to come up with some different excuse everytime the kid comes to my door?