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This has been going on for YEARS, there is a lot more time that it isn't talked about then it is, I have asked her many times why she doesn't do something about it and it is always an excuse....she says she is fighting with my father about it because both their names are on some papers, now it is this car in the garage, or a million other reasons. I have said my thing several times about this especially about 6 years ago, then I wait to see what they do which is nothing except talk about it here and there and when she does talk about it I offer help and try to get things going yet it goes nowhere, it is an endless cycle, they are getting older, both had health scares last year so it would make sense for them to do SOMETHING NOW, anything would be a help, she keeps saying she wants to sell the row homes and the garages, I tell her that would be a great start, you would feel so much better just doing that, if she doesn't want to sell them then stop saying you want to and I try to help and it goes nowhere and I get upset. So once again, I will sit and not do anything, I did that about a year ago and watched and waited, yet we have not moved 1 inch since then. I guess I just have to resolve myself that this is how they are, this is how they want to be DESPITE my mom saying she wants to sell this and move and just watch nothing get done, and when the time comes I will have to take on this massive undertaking of dealing with all that it involves.The thought crossed my mind that if you refrain from saying anything further about this to them, wait, and I'm guessing your mom might surprise you. Without you talking about it all the time, she may decide, on her own, to do something.
Or if you haven't, ask her, "why do you say yes you want to, and then don't?"