My Lulu is just about 7 months, and we got her spayed a few weeks ago. She is very small and was the runt of her litter, if that means anything. The past month or two she’s been super ‘bratty’ , as we describe it. She doesn’t like to be held or cuddled, bites us (my boyfriend and I, we have a house together) a lot for no reason, and generally doesn’t listen as much as she used to. The biggest thing I notice with her though is her lack of affection…she still follows me everywhere but she never wants to be held or cuddled whatsoever…she either bites or wiggles away. And yes, we have tried everything with the biting- immediately stopping petting/play and yelling “OW!”, etc. She's basically just being really independent and doing her own thing, which isn't a bad thing (except for the biting!), but I hope she settles down a bit over time.
Also, I am trying to find a way to teach her that biting isn't the proper way to say "Hey, I've had enough petting" or "Don't pet me there", because that's what she does. I NEVER want to have a cat that bites/lashes out randomly, so I am trying to re-mediate this so it doesn't turn into a life-long habit, but I'm not sure what else to do. Again, we usually do the right thing and say "NO!" and pull away every time and give her a toy. I am probably better at this than my boyfriend, who lets her get away with biting-playing more than I do.
Anyway, my question is, do cats have a ‘bratty, teenage stage’ they go through like humans? Will she calm down and get more affectionate with time? She’s our only pet and she’s the love of my life and I hope she goes back to needing/loving her Mama like before Any input would be appreciated!!
Also, I am trying to find a way to teach her that biting isn't the proper way to say "Hey, I've had enough petting" or "Don't pet me there", because that's what she does. I NEVER want to have a cat that bites/lashes out randomly, so I am trying to re-mediate this so it doesn't turn into a life-long habit, but I'm not sure what else to do. Again, we usually do the right thing and say "NO!" and pull away every time and give her a toy. I am probably better at this than my boyfriend, who lets her get away with biting-playing more than I do.
Anyway, my question is, do cats have a ‘bratty, teenage stage’ they go through like humans? Will she calm down and get more affectionate with time? She’s our only pet and she’s the love of my life and I hope she goes back to needing/loving her Mama like before Any input would be appreciated!!