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Hi guys I hope you can help me with this dilemma i am having.
me and the wife recently moved into our own apartment and got a female cat (4 months doll face Persian female) Cadbury(now 7 months old). she came in and basically adjusted to her new surroundings.
3 Days ago I adopted a male Casper (currently 6 months same doll face Persian) however even though he is younger being a male he is 3 times the size of Cadbury.
Initial 2 days were fine they would just look at each other from the ends of the house, occasional mawing (wierd scared mewing) and hissing if brought close to each other, if they got too close to each other they would just hiss and run to the other ends of the house.
however from yesterday Casper has sort of started hitting Cadbury and she does not even retaliate, she just sits there taking it, and the wife has to break it up, their claws are neatly cut so that they cant harm them selves however I am worried this will escalate. and I dont want the female getting hurt as shes very dear to us
I have tried providing them with ample amounts of food and water, even giving both of them individual times and even times together for fun and playing. if we spot Casper trying to advance on Cadbury we just Firmly tell him NO! with a firm "HMMMMMMM" sound and he backs off.
they use the litter properly, like i provided 2 litters for them and now they use both. They eat together fine, we hold them in laps and sit close they are fine. but that's only when we are around.
added note my cats are not neutered or spayed, as I intend to get them to breed.
I live in a third world country so I dont have access to Fileway.
please help I want the male to stop hitting her and both of them just be friends.
me and the wife recently moved into our own apartment and got a female cat (4 months doll face Persian female) Cadbury(now 7 months old). she came in and basically adjusted to her new surroundings.
3 Days ago I adopted a male Casper (currently 6 months same doll face Persian) however even though he is younger being a male he is 3 times the size of Cadbury.
Initial 2 days were fine they would just look at each other from the ends of the house, occasional mawing (wierd scared mewing) and hissing if brought close to each other, if they got too close to each other they would just hiss and run to the other ends of the house.
however from yesterday Casper has sort of started hitting Cadbury and she does not even retaliate, she just sits there taking it, and the wife has to break it up, their claws are neatly cut so that they cant harm them selves however I am worried this will escalate. and I dont want the female getting hurt as shes very dear to us
I have tried providing them with ample amounts of food and water, even giving both of them individual times and even times together for fun and playing. if we spot Casper trying to advance on Cadbury we just Firmly tell him NO! with a firm "HMMMMMMM" sound and he backs off.
they use the litter properly, like i provided 2 litters for them and now they use both. They eat together fine, we hold them in laps and sit close they are fine. but that's only when we are around.
added note my cats are not neutered or spayed, as I intend to get them to breed.
I live in a third world country so I dont have access to Fileway.
please help I want the male to stop hitting her and both of them just be friends.