So my cat Dudley had to be admitted the day after Thanksgiving because he was barely passing urine. Two days later and he's home. He had a catheter put in, but no surgery. Vet recommended a cone for 5 to 10 days. I'm not doing it. He was so freaked out. Until I see he is really irritating that site I think it's more stressful to use the cone. Any advice out there?