I think it is wonderful that your children believe in santa and the joy that it brings them! I sure don't have any problem at all with santa....he's a pretty good guy! :tounge2: I just am not going to teach Amber to believe in him, but that doesn't mean I think you are wrong for doing so, I think each person should decide for themselves if they want to tell their children about santa or not. I plan to tell her that santa is one of the symbols of Christmas because he is unselfish and brings gifts and joy to children, but that it is just like Sesamie street on TV, it doesn't really exist. Maybe that is wrong of me, but I don't think so. It's just the way I was raised, and I don't think I missed out on anything....I loved Christmas!