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SORRY THIS IS LONG!! We had a cat show up on our doorstep, and when he didn't leave for 10 hours and I didn't want him to stay outside that night because it was bloody cold. Anyways, no one claimed him in the 5 or so weeks we have had him. We even checked for a chip with the vet, but were told he did not have one and was a "young intact male". He is now around 7-8 months old. SWEETEST CAT EVER. I have to be honest, I'm more of a dog person. But I love this cat. He purrs so much, his "mew" is so soft, and he would be the happiest cat on earth if he could lay on your lap. Forever.
We already have a cat however who still refuses to let us keep him. So, he has the master bedroom, and exercises in the whole house daily with our cat in the second bedroom. And, it works. Well... Worked. Currently my brother and his children are living with us. They have the master bedroom set up for them, and so he has company every day when he is in there. We did have a rule set because my niece played rough with him (and lied to me what she really did)... I heard a THUD against the wall then the cat crying at the door to be let out. The rule was "not alone with the cats, and leave them alone".
Let him out to exercise recently. He's bitten me, scratched me, tried to even go for my face! When he wanders around he tries to find places to hide, he is skittish, and I don't even feel safe with him near my 11 month old daughter. When it came time to put him back in the room, he purred until we got to the door and he pushed himself into me, his purring clicked off, sunk his teeth into my hand and refused to let go! I literally felt the tension he held inside.
So, obviously he was scared. Stressed, frustrated, scared, angry. Taking it out on the whole world because he feels so damn miserable. I asked my nephew what the heck happened. Apparently my niece tried to throw him over the TV, but didn't "do it right" because he ended up smacking his back legs on the TV. Then she has gone to grab the scruff, but grabbed the skin lower on his back causing him visible pain. Have set the rule of "not without adult supervision". Thankfully it is less than a week before they are out of my house.
But I'm afraid that the damage is done... I've NEVER had to deal with anything like this. No, this isn't the first time she's abused cats... Or, animals in general. Thank god she is in counselling because after this she is not allowed to set a foot in my house. She's caused my parent's dog to become snippy with children, forced her family to rehome a cat due to her cruelty (which he is now content in a home with a sweet little girl who loves him to pieces), caused mental trauma to her step-mom's cat, who is skittish around the baby and refuses to set foot in the room she used to sleep in... I'm sorry this is so long, but I really need help with the cat... what can I do?? After they leave I intend to literally clean every surface of this house, even if it means repainting and all, just to purge this place of the horrible things that have caused this cat so much anguish. He targets females, which scares me because of my 11 month old daughter... Who is so great with "her kitty" and him, but currently his behavior...
The home we have lined up for him, has an autistic daughter who would adore him for the rest of his life. Before he was perfect for her, and would be WONDERFUL!! But now...? Now I can't let him go anywhere until he is mentally and physically sound. For their sake, and definitely for his sake. Please! If anyone has tricks or tips up their sleeves, share with me so I can help him out He shouldn't have to feel this way. EVER!!
We already have a cat however who still refuses to let us keep him. So, he has the master bedroom, and exercises in the whole house daily with our cat in the second bedroom. And, it works. Well... Worked. Currently my brother and his children are living with us. They have the master bedroom set up for them, and so he has company every day when he is in there. We did have a rule set because my niece played rough with him (and lied to me what she really did)... I heard a THUD against the wall then the cat crying at the door to be let out. The rule was "not alone with the cats, and leave them alone".
Let him out to exercise recently. He's bitten me, scratched me, tried to even go for my face! When he wanders around he tries to find places to hide, he is skittish, and I don't even feel safe with him near my 11 month old daughter. When it came time to put him back in the room, he purred until we got to the door and he pushed himself into me, his purring clicked off, sunk his teeth into my hand and refused to let go! I literally felt the tension he held inside.
So, obviously he was scared. Stressed, frustrated, scared, angry. Taking it out on the whole world because he feels so damn miserable. I asked my nephew what the heck happened. Apparently my niece tried to throw him over the TV, but didn't "do it right" because he ended up smacking his back legs on the TV. Then she has gone to grab the scruff, but grabbed the skin lower on his back causing him visible pain. Have set the rule of "not without adult supervision". Thankfully it is less than a week before they are out of my house.
But I'm afraid that the damage is done... I've NEVER had to deal with anything like this. No, this isn't the first time she's abused cats... Or, animals in general. Thank god she is in counselling because after this she is not allowed to set a foot in my house. She's caused my parent's dog to become snippy with children, forced her family to rehome a cat due to her cruelty (which he is now content in a home with a sweet little girl who loves him to pieces), caused mental trauma to her step-mom's cat, who is skittish around the baby and refuses to set foot in the room she used to sleep in... I'm sorry this is so long, but I really need help with the cat... what can I do?? After they leave I intend to literally clean every surface of this house, even if it means repainting and all, just to purge this place of the horrible things that have caused this cat so much anguish. He targets females, which scares me because of my 11 month old daughter... Who is so great with "her kitty" and him, but currently his behavior...
The home we have lined up for him, has an autistic daughter who would adore him for the rest of his life. Before he was perfect for her, and would be WONDERFUL!! But now...? Now I can't let him go anywhere until he is mentally and physically sound. For their sake, and definitely for his sake. Please! If anyone has tricks or tips up their sleeves, share with me so I can help him out He shouldn't have to feel this way. EVER!!