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BTW: this is also the same thing that happened with Shaman. Everyone said, she'll be back. Wait it out. Well guess what? That was almost a year ago. No sign of Shaman. No one in my neighborhood claims to have seen her. She could be homed or dead. I don't know as no one wants to tell me a thing. No closure. And I thought I had a bond with her. Am I going to have to endure this with Tourmaline as well? The major difference between Shaman and Tourmaline is Shaman knew the other cats and where the other colonies were as all part of hoarding situation. Tourmaline is a dumped pet that stupid evil crazy woman here refused to do anything. I was even threatened when trying to find a home for Tourmaline. So I guess I should be used to no one in my city caring about me or what happens to me and the cats. But it hurts. And I even had Tourmaline inside for a bit 2 weeks ago and the look of trust on her face will haunt me forever because I'm such a miserable failure to these cats.
I don't even get advice on where she may be (like brainstorming). Come on now: it's 50 degrees where I"m at. Nice and sunny and as usual no one here cares. Everyone in my neighborhood is probably laughing at me
I suppose my definition of caretaker is different then everyone else's but my upbringing states, when you are a caretaker, if something happens to the one in your charge, then you are a million times responsible. I'm sorry if that offends but that's the way I feel.
I don't even get advice on where she may be (like brainstorming). Come on now: it's 50 degrees where I"m at. Nice and sunny and as usual no one here cares. Everyone in my neighborhood is probably laughing at me
I suppose my definition of caretaker is different then everyone else's but my upbringing states, when you are a caretaker, if something happens to the one in your charge, then you are a million times responsible. I'm sorry if that offends but that's the way I feel.
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