Hmmmm.... I know I said "that's just like guys", but I do have to brag a little bit about my BF. He had a cat for nearly 19 years. Lived by himself (perennial batchelor). He fed the cat, cleaned the litter pan, brushed and groomed, cleaned up cat yak and hair balls, and I firmly believe, that if was wasn't still grieving and if he got another cat ... or two... he would have no problems picking up where he left off. If we had these cats together under the same roof, I am sure he would share the chores. And not just "schmoogling!!" Tho he is good at that, too!!