This started several months ago. We don't know how old she is, but we've had her since 2008 and at that point, she already had kittens (we found her living under our house with one surviving kitten and kept both). She's always had random pee/poop issues where we'd find that she sometimes peed and pooped in random spots around the house (maybe once or twice a month). For the last several months, however, she has essentially been going in our bed. This seemed to coincide with my girlfriend's work schedule change in April (she now gets up much, much earlier than before and I am now in charge of cat breakfast, etc.), starting a few weeks later.
She only does it on my side of the bed, and even does it when I'm sleeping, peeing all over me, the sheets and my blanket. She's even peed on my pillow. This isn't some hatred of me, she definitely loves me, sleeps on me, crawls into my arms and rides my shoulders when I get home.
We got tired of daily sheet replacements/laundry and started putting down puppy training pads all over the bed. This has emboldened her. She's essentially stopped using the litter box almost completely. This doesn't seem to be an incontinence issue, as she intentionally makes her way from other rooms to pee/poop on these pads on the bed, walking by multiple litter boxes on the way. If we lock her out of the bedroom, her 2nd favorite spot to now poop/pee is a glass bowl on top of the microwave.
We've tried several things, including feeding her on the bed so that she associates the space with food and not a spot for her toilet habits (this failed), spraying vinegar (failed), and using enzyme cat urine cleaners (zero effect).
Bizarrely, we are now seeing a "copycat" phenomenon happening. Another one of our cats has been watching this happen and has now decided that she will also pee on these puppy training pads from time to time.
Any thoughts on what can be done about this?
She only does it on my side of the bed, and even does it when I'm sleeping, peeing all over me, the sheets and my blanket. She's even peed on my pillow. This isn't some hatred of me, she definitely loves me, sleeps on me, crawls into my arms and rides my shoulders when I get home.
We got tired of daily sheet replacements/laundry and started putting down puppy training pads all over the bed. This has emboldened her. She's essentially stopped using the litter box almost completely. This doesn't seem to be an incontinence issue, as she intentionally makes her way from other rooms to pee/poop on these pads on the bed, walking by multiple litter boxes on the way. If we lock her out of the bedroom, her 2nd favorite spot to now poop/pee is a glass bowl on top of the microwave.
We've tried several things, including feeding her on the bed so that she associates the space with food and not a spot for her toilet habits (this failed), spraying vinegar (failed), and using enzyme cat urine cleaners (zero effect).
Bizarrely, we are now seeing a "copycat" phenomenon happening. Another one of our cats has been watching this happen and has now decided that she will also pee on these puppy training pads from time to time.
Any thoughts on what can be done about this?