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I adopted my Lizzie two years ago, and since then she has been an only pet. She has been loving, playful, and super affectionate. My boyfriend and I are moving in together, and he has a 9 year old Morkie(she’s tiny and essentially a cat, super chill personality).
We were going to take things slow for introductions, me moving into the apartment first and him bringing Kona over for visits until the two seemed comfortable, but some circumstances with other animals in his home sped up our move in date so that we both moved in at the same time today. We’d done some scent swapping, but the two had never met prior to today due to my landlord’s extremely strict ‘no dogs on the premises’ policy. I’m addition to his dog, there was another dog, two other cats, and several birds at his place, so I felt that bringing Lizzie out there would stress her out.
We carefully introduced them today. Lizzie’s tail puffed up at first but for the most part Kona wasn’t really interested in her so she calmed down. She even started trying to rub up against her, and Kona was taking that as playing. They seemed to be getting along fine.
Since we finished moving later today, we have made sure that neither of them were in the apartment alone together. My shift was good; Lizzie was shut in the bedroom for a little bit and when she started meowing to come out I let her and kept a close watch on the two animals as she explored. They seemed good.
Then came my boyfriend’s shift while I left to buy a new litter box and some essentials. When I came back he told me that Lizzie kept going up to Kona and hissing and swiping at her. Kona would try to walk away, and Lizzie would leave her alone for a second but then chase her down, hiss and swipe again.
We decided maybe it would be best for Lizzie to stay out of the bedroom tonight while we kept Kona in with us. I’m concerned that this aggressive behavior will continue. For now Lizzie is in our (small) laundry room with her litter box, but she does not do well wth being confined. She prefers to be able to explore. We have plans for Kona to go to a friend’s house tomorrow and the following day while we’re both at work, but any advice for reintroducing them? We did go fast with the introductions, and I’m not sure how to reset or address Lizzie’s aggressive behavior. I should add that Kona is only a few pounds more than her and does not have an aggressive bone in her body, so I’m worried that Lizzie will bully her. Even now I can hear her pawing at the laundry room door, so I’m not sure how long we can keep her confined and still get enough sleep... Help!
I adopted my Lizzie two years ago, and since then she has been an only pet. She has been loving, playful, and super affectionate. My boyfriend and I are moving in together, and he has a 9 year old Morkie(she’s tiny and essentially a cat, super chill personality).
We were going to take things slow for introductions, me moving into the apartment first and him bringing Kona over for visits until the two seemed comfortable, but some circumstances with other animals in his home sped up our move in date so that we both moved in at the same time today. We’d done some scent swapping, but the two had never met prior to today due to my landlord’s extremely strict ‘no dogs on the premises’ policy. I’m addition to his dog, there was another dog, two other cats, and several birds at his place, so I felt that bringing Lizzie out there would stress her out.
We carefully introduced them today. Lizzie’s tail puffed up at first but for the most part Kona wasn’t really interested in her so she calmed down. She even started trying to rub up against her, and Kona was taking that as playing. They seemed to be getting along fine.
Since we finished moving later today, we have made sure that neither of them were in the apartment alone together. My shift was good; Lizzie was shut in the bedroom for a little bit and when she started meowing to come out I let her and kept a close watch on the two animals as she explored. They seemed good.
Then came my boyfriend’s shift while I left to buy a new litter box and some essentials. When I came back he told me that Lizzie kept going up to Kona and hissing and swiping at her. Kona would try to walk away, and Lizzie would leave her alone for a second but then chase her down, hiss and swipe again.
We decided maybe it would be best for Lizzie to stay out of the bedroom tonight while we kept Kona in with us. I’m concerned that this aggressive behavior will continue. For now Lizzie is in our (small) laundry room with her litter box, but she does not do well wth being confined. She prefers to be able to explore. We have plans for Kona to go to a friend’s house tomorrow and the following day while we’re both at work, but any advice for reintroducing them? We did go fast with the introductions, and I’m not sure how to reset or address Lizzie’s aggressive behavior. I should add that Kona is only a few pounds more than her and does not have an aggressive bone in her body, so I’m worried that Lizzie will bully her. Even now I can hear her pawing at the laundry room door, so I’m not sure how long we can keep her confined and still get enough sleep... Help!