Cat Meows Constantly At Boyfriend

[HeatherandCallie]

My boyfriend and I just moved in together and my cat constantly meows at him. She did this when he would stay over at my house but now that we live together he can't get away from her. She is a 3 year old Calico. She had me to herself for 2 years and then I moved in with family for a year and now my boyfriend and I live together. I have tried to reassure her and give her love but when we go to bed, she starts her constant meowing (imagine a cat in heat x10). I also tried the plug in pheromones that didn't help. We tell her to stop and that doesn't help either. I love them both and don't know what to do. If anyone has some suggestions, I would appreciate them. I'm at my wits end and my boyfriend is going to start sleeping in another room if she doesn't stop.

 

[rubysmama]

Hello and welcome to TCS. Is your cat meowing aggressively? Or in a "pay attention to me" way?

Here's an article that might be helpful:
Do Cats Get Jealous? (and What To Do About It When They Do)

 

[talkingpeanut]

Is your cat spayed? Just checking.

How is her relationship with your boyfriend?

 

[danteshuman]

Why not lock her in the spare room at night? That sounds like a better option then your bf sleeping there. Then after a few weeks let her join you but if she meows she sleeps in the room for the night.

 

[jclark]

Oh this is easy. She's saying "Where's the ring !?!? Where's the ring !?!? RINNNNG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"