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Hey there!
I have posted before about introducing my and my partners cats together before and mostly the response was they will be fine but I’m really worried my cats are going to fight!
We moved in together a month ago and the cat intros were progressing well. Initially my cat ( female, 2 years) was quite playful and interested in my partners (male, 5 years) who was timid and unsure.
That soon changed when he got confidence and intended to start playing with her and she immediately regressed and decided she did not want him to touch her as he was larger than her and she was intimidated.
they are able to share the same space, eat together and otherwise are fine living together as long as he doesn’t try to touch her or play with her.
Whenever she find him approaching her or looking at her she will hiss , which is constant throughout the day.
he is mostly good, he’s a gentle catby nature and he won’t annoy her constantly but occasionally he will start to ‘stalk’ her (he follows her even after she’s hissed and growled at him) and starts to swish he’s tail at her and stare at her. This sometimes leads to him pouncing or swatting at her.
its good to note that even when he play fights he does it in the most half assed Gentle way and despite being bigger than her has never tried to hurt her or even come close. He doesn’t hiss or growl, show he’s teeth or claws... but he will touch her.
And she reacts IN FULL defence mode, claws and teeth out ears pinned down and growling and noises and hisses galore.
My problem is today he swatted at her and she went defensive and usually they will seperate but today he kept swatting back and I had to intervene because I thought she might fully attack him and he wasn’t going to back down.
I’m really worried about how to progress as she is obviously terrified to be touched by him and I dont Know how to progress
please help!
I have posted before about introducing my and my partners cats together before and mostly the response was they will be fine but I’m really worried my cats are going to fight!
We moved in together a month ago and the cat intros were progressing well. Initially my cat ( female, 2 years) was quite playful and interested in my partners (male, 5 years) who was timid and unsure.
That soon changed when he got confidence and intended to start playing with her and she immediately regressed and decided she did not want him to touch her as he was larger than her and she was intimidated.
they are able to share the same space, eat together and otherwise are fine living together as long as he doesn’t try to touch her or play with her.
Whenever she find him approaching her or looking at her she will hiss , which is constant throughout the day.
he is mostly good, he’s a gentle catby nature and he won’t annoy her constantly but occasionally he will start to ‘stalk’ her (he follows her even after she’s hissed and growled at him) and starts to swish he’s tail at her and stare at her. This sometimes leads to him pouncing or swatting at her.
its good to note that even when he play fights he does it in the most half assed Gentle way and despite being bigger than her has never tried to hurt her or even come close. He doesn’t hiss or growl, show he’s teeth or claws... but he will touch her.
And she reacts IN FULL defence mode, claws and teeth out ears pinned down and growling and noises and hisses galore.
My problem is today he swatted at her and she went defensive and usually they will seperate but today he kept swatting back and I had to intervene because I thought she might fully attack him and he wasn’t going to back down.
I’m really worried about how to progress as she is obviously terrified to be touched by him and I dont Know how to progress
please help!