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I have several cats and also fostering a mom & kittens. They are 8.5 weeks and are ready to go, but for the moment, I need to know if these behaviours are bullying or not.
A 3 yo male (fixed) came back after being away for a few weeks. He has met everyone prior to leaving, now he's growling/hissing at everyone. The kittens have it the worst. I've seen him growl and swat at them. My "friends" say it's normal, but my cat books say stop the aggression before the damage. My "friends" are currently bullying me on everything I do wrong, like they want me cast out. I'm trying my best, but cat info conflicts with each other. I don't want the kittens growing up traumatised. Once they get swiped/growled at, they hide for hours. Do I wait until someone bleeds? I'm already hurt enough from the "friends". I don't know what to do anymore.
A 3 yo male (fixed) came back after being away for a few weeks. He has met everyone prior to leaving, now he's growling/hissing at everyone. The kittens have it the worst. I've seen him growl and swat at them. My "friends" say it's normal, but my cat books say stop the aggression before the damage. My "friends" are currently bullying me on everything I do wrong, like they want me cast out. I'm trying my best, but cat info conflicts with each other. I don't want the kittens growing up traumatised. Once they get swiped/growled at, they hide for hours. Do I wait until someone bleeds? I'm already hurt enough from the "friends". I don't know what to do anymore.