I've been invited to a bridal shower that I won't be attending. After searching for over an hour for several items on the future bride's registry, I purchased a gift card. My question is: do I send the card with someone I know will be attending, or is it ok to mail it to the bride's home? I understand this is to be a pretty upscale event, and I don't want to look like a total hick who doesn't know the proper etiquette.