I have a one year and three month old fur ball named Hanner. I love her and spoil her absolutely rotten. I recently moved to a new apartment and it became just me and Hanner. At first she loved the new place. It wasn't as big but now she doesn't have any restricted areas because the whole place is ours (and by that I mean hers.) She still loves the new place, but now I have started working and going to school so I'm gone a lot. She has slowly begun to show signs that she is lonely and it is breaking my heart. After talking with some friends and family, we decided that I should adopt another cat. I know I want a kitten because Hanner is a very dominate cat and I feel like an older cat would be seen as a threat to her authority. But now I'm stuck with another tough decision. Would a boy or a girl work best with Hanner's personality? (She is already fixed so that's not a problem.)
Hanner is the queen bee and she needs to stay that way. She doesn't like to cuddle or be loved on too much but she won't go far out of my sight. If I'm on the couch, she has to be sitting on the back of it. If I'm at the dinner table, she is sitting in the chair beside me. So, seeing as how much she likes being with someone, I figured a kitten would be perfect. I know from experience that female cats are more territorial by nature so I worry that another female cat would be a problem. But I also worry about spraying and such from a boy cat. Of course I'll be spaying/neutering which ever gender I choose but I still wonder which would be a better choice to live and coexist best with Hanner.
While I want the new cat, Hanner is my main priority. She has been my little girl for over a year now and I want her to be happy. I've been thinking long and hard about the decision to adopt another little one, and I've gotten most of the kinks out, I just need some advice of the gender. So if anyone has any advice, experience, or just general ideas please throw them out there!
Hanner is the queen bee and she needs to stay that way. She doesn't like to cuddle or be loved on too much but she won't go far out of my sight. If I'm on the couch, she has to be sitting on the back of it. If I'm at the dinner table, she is sitting in the chair beside me. So, seeing as how much she likes being with someone, I figured a kitten would be perfect. I know from experience that female cats are more territorial by nature so I worry that another female cat would be a problem. But I also worry about spraying and such from a boy cat. Of course I'll be spaying/neutering which ever gender I choose but I still wonder which would be a better choice to live and coexist best with Hanner.
While I want the new cat, Hanner is my main priority. She has been my little girl for over a year now and I want her to be happy. I've been thinking long and hard about the decision to adopt another little one, and I've gotten most of the kinks out, I just need some advice of the gender. So if anyone has any advice, experience, or just general ideas please throw them out there!