- Joined
- Mar 7, 2008
- Messages
- 9,837
- Purraise
- 198
Senior cats with chronic illnesses is a life on a constant roller coaster. Good days and Bad days. Good hours and bad hours even.NOW, on my way out the door to get the baby food, Mom and I both caught him curled up on his side, head laid down on its side, And he was breathing normally and deeply. What gives ya'll? This is so confusing to me. Now he's awake and he's doing the grunting thing again and breathing in short breaths. I have no idea.
Boo boo was enjoying his yard today, he is not ready to go. He will tell you when he is. He will tell you when he has had enough.
Ootay lived a long time with all her problems. Megacolon, arthritis, CRF, high blood pressure, hyperthyroid disease, heart murmur and stroke.
One day as I was putting her in her carrier for yet another vet visit and blood draw she cried. Ootay never cried when I put her in her crate, so what I heard at that moment was "mommie, I'm tired, I don't want to go to the vet anymore". So that was her last visit. When we got to the vet I told my vet that I was not putting her through any more testing. I would continue at home with her fluids, and vitamin B-12 and B shots and megacolon meds, but that was all.
(She was unable to tolerate either the Norvasc for the high blood pressure or the methimazole for the hyperthyroid, that is why she had the strokes)
It wasn't the CRF that brought the end. 3 months after that last vet visit, three months of staying home and being pampered and loved by me and Tolly, and had anything her little heart desired, with no more trips to the vet, she had a third stroke. This one was severe enough that I decided it wouldn't be fair to wait and see if she would recover (she had recovered from two others, which were milder)
As I waited for the time to bring her to the vet I talked to her and told her I knew she'd had enough. I made sure the other cats, especially Tolly, said good bye. I miss her so much I am sitting here crying.
Booboo will tell you. And Coco will too. Just listen to them. Make sure you aren't keeping them for yourself. They will tell you. Hugs to you both.