I have two cats that get along well--a five year old female and a 1 1/2 year old male. They seem to be well bonded and constantly groom each other. I am considering getting a third cat, but I am afraid of upsetting the balance and possibly having behavioral issues with the cats that I have not had before. The female kitty is sweet (to me) but can be a little feisty at times and the male cat is very sweet but super hyper and very vocal. The female cat HATED the male when he was a kitten and seemed to want to kill him, but she loves him now. She does not seem to be phased at all by him frequently pouncing on her and just runs and jumps up on a high place if he bothers her. She only swats at him if he is very persistent. He usually takes the hint.
If I do get another cat, it will be a kitten.
My question is if I do decide to go through with it, would it be better to get another male cat or another female cat, or does it not matter?
I am afraid that I just got lucky with the female cat warming up to the male kitty. Her forever hating a new cat is my worst fear. A neighborhood cat passed by the window one day and she threw herself against the window hissing and was VERY angry that it was there. My other cat just sat there and looked puzzled.
I used the Jackson Galaxy technique for introducing my two current cats, so I am familiar with it.
If I do get another cat, it will be a kitten.
My question is if I do decide to go through with it, would it be better to get another male cat or another female cat, or does it not matter?
I am afraid that I just got lucky with the female cat warming up to the male kitty. Her forever hating a new cat is my worst fear. A neighborhood cat passed by the window one day and she threw herself against the window hissing and was VERY angry that it was there. My other cat just sat there and looked puzzled.
I used the Jackson Galaxy technique for introducing my two current cats, so I am familiar with it.