I don't see them often in real life; mostly though Facebook, but I do see them in real life and that is how I first knew them. I want to say something...maybe indirectly because I'm really not about confrontation. But how do you do that when it's something so sensitive as the deaths of loved ones? And once I figure out how to say something...when do I say it? It's certainly not appropriate to say something the day they are bound to be very emotional thinking of their father.
It really irks me that they keep doing this. They are nice girls and I generally like them. I wouldn't want to add to their hurt. How would you approach it? I just feel like even if I sent a private message to one of them, even with nice suggestions on how else they could commemorate him, it would make me come off like I don't care that they are missing him.