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I brought Grover (neutered now 7 month kitten) home in October. I have a resident cat Boomer, fixed 5yo female. I have followed all of the rules for introductions and am now stuck.
As long as I am supervising, they do fine, but any time I try to let go a little bit, the two end up fighting with pilo erection and some hissing from my 5yo. Take this morning, we're all doing fine - I did a long playing session with Grover to tire him out a bit, and then I did some chores while they were both in the same area of the apartment. At some point, Grover ran by Boomer and Boomer chased. Once they get into it, they won't stop - I don't think it's playing because there's pilo erection and hissing. Both seem freaked out but keep at it. Thankfully, so far, there hasn't been any injuries or fur flying. Once they get freaked, I separate them again.
I don't know what to do. I've been stuck at this point for about a month and I don't know what to do differently. I believe Boomer is the one who instigates the "this is not playing" attitude, and Grover basically defends himself.
Help! How can I get over this hurdle? I don't want it to escalate into blood drawing fighting but I need something concrete to try because I am really at my wit's end. I live by myself, so keep that in mind - I don't have a second person to distract other cat, etc.
Thank you!
As long as I am supervising, they do fine, but any time I try to let go a little bit, the two end up fighting with pilo erection and some hissing from my 5yo. Take this morning, we're all doing fine - I did a long playing session with Grover to tire him out a bit, and then I did some chores while they were both in the same area of the apartment. At some point, Grover ran by Boomer and Boomer chased. Once they get into it, they won't stop - I don't think it's playing because there's pilo erection and hissing. Both seem freaked out but keep at it. Thankfully, so far, there hasn't been any injuries or fur flying. Once they get freaked, I separate them again.
I don't know what to do. I've been stuck at this point for about a month and I don't know what to do differently. I believe Boomer is the one who instigates the "this is not playing" attitude, and Grover basically defends himself.
Help! How can I get over this hurdle? I don't want it to escalate into blood drawing fighting but I need something concrete to try because I am really at my wit's end. I live by myself, so keep that in mind - I don't have a second person to distract other cat, etc.
Thank you!