Tit for Tat? I don't know how old you are but it sounds like neither of you are ready for a permanent relationship yet. I'd recommend you both staying single for awhile and dating other people. If what you think you have is real, it will still be there after you both have time alone.Originally Posted by greenvillegal
I totally agree that hindsight is 20/20 especially in this kind of situation...
So what the hell is wrong with me? Why am I considering giving him another chance? He works with the girl so yeah he sees her. It really bothers me. I actually think it would be better if it weren't just one girl.
I wasn't neglecting him or anything. He says he doesn't know why he did it. Now, HE was neglecting ME for the past 4 months. That's why I started to suspect. Last week I actually hooked up with a guy, but that's only because of what he was doing to me. I knew he was cheating at that point and just had to catch him in a lie, and I was also trying to distance myself from him so that when I caught him I wouldn't be so hurt. All of my friends say that my act is justified, so should I feel guilty about what I did?