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Hi everyone I have a one year old siamese mix. Anyways I got a second cat (to provide a companion for my first) and it made me realize how anti-social my first cat is in comparison with the second. My second cat constantly wants to be held and pet whereas my first cat will not let me touch him. In fact he runs away if I step near him. He never makes eye contact with me and he dissapears for long periods of time. He is also very skittish of any sudden noise or movement. He hates strangers and will hide the whole day when someone new comes.
The only signs of affection I see from him is he seems to prefer me over the rest of my family and will usually be in the same room as me, but that is about it.
I think this might all stem from his past though. He was the first cat I got and I don't think I did a good job of evaluating the place I got him from. He was so so scared when I first got him, but they told me hiding under the bed for two weeks was normal. But I later found out that his foster care kept all their cats locked up in a tower like cage because they also fostered dogs. Apparently one time a dog grabbed a kitten by the neck and killed it. Basically I think he was VERY poorly socialized.
--My first question is although he doesn't seek any attention or affection from me is he still happy?? Is this just his personality or is something wrong? I know some cats are more aloof than others.
--My second question is is there anything I can do to try and coax him into being more social?
The most important thing is I want him to be happy and healthy!! Thanks!
The only signs of affection I see from him is he seems to prefer me over the rest of my family and will usually be in the same room as me, but that is about it.
I think this might all stem from his past though. He was the first cat I got and I don't think I did a good job of evaluating the place I got him from. He was so so scared when I first got him, but they told me hiding under the bed for two weeks was normal. But I later found out that his foster care kept all their cats locked up in a tower like cage because they also fostered dogs. Apparently one time a dog grabbed a kitten by the neck and killed it. Basically I think he was VERY poorly socialized.
--My first question is although he doesn't seek any attention or affection from me is he still happy?? Is this just his personality or is something wrong? I know some cats are more aloof than others.
--My second question is is there anything I can do to try and coax him into being more social?
The most important thing is I want him to be happy and healthy!! Thanks!