I know what you mean. My s/o came home one night from work and found me bawling, and asked me what was wrong (he thought someone had died - which, in an indirect way, was true). I told him why I was crying, and he told me the same thing; "If it bothers you so much, don't read the threads." I tried explaining to him just why I visited the Rainbow forum, but he had a point: don't go there is it upsets you so much.Originally Posted by Taurus77
I am the same way, too! I cannot go in there without breaking down and bawling. My BF gets so mad at me--he says, "you know you'll cry and get sad, why do you bother reading those?" He's right, though.
But, I think the RB section is more beneficial as a release, a way to grieve, to get out your sorrows rather than a place where the people are seeking advice or condolensces.
It would be for me, anyway. I always feel better after I write down my problems.
Nobody are always ready to read something sad and don´t break it...Originally Posted by KittKatt
I've tried, several times, to offer words of comfort & support to those who have lost a beloved pet in the "Crossing the Rainbow Bridge" section of TCS.
~KK~