For the past week my bf has been trying to meet up with his best friend, A, and it hasnt gone well.
A called him last week and arranged to meet up the next day. I met up with my bf in the morning and we went out but although my bf called A's mobile and house phone he didnt pick up, so they didn't see each other, and so it all kinda got cancelled.
Then A and my bf talked (finally!) online and said they'd hang out on thursday. As a result I made plans for thursday and friday, since when they meet up they stay up all night watching bad martial arts films and playing resident evil...
On friday morning i got a call from my bf who said that A had suddenly cancelled on him late last night because he was too hung over to do anything. I couldnt see my bf since i'd already made plans.
Turns out A had 'washed' his phone accidently, so hadn't got my bf's messages. I didn't get it. A knew they were meeting up yet didnt bother to explain earlier or call him to do anything.
Then today they made concrete plans to do something and my bf came over in the morning/early afternoon. A little while after he left my bf texted me to say A called him (bear with me here) and said he'd be an hour or so late!
This is really starting to make me \t
I had a completely free evening tonight, house all to myself, which doesn't often happen, and because A has been so unavailable and unreachable I can't spend it with my bf!
I can't tell if I'm being unreasonable here, and I'm not about to tell my bf about my annoyance towards his best friend. I just wanted to know if I was making a fuss over nothing *big sigh* rant over
A called him last week and arranged to meet up the next day. I met up with my bf in the morning and we went out but although my bf called A's mobile and house phone he didnt pick up, so they didn't see each other, and so it all kinda got cancelled.
Then A and my bf talked (finally!) online and said they'd hang out on thursday. As a result I made plans for thursday and friday, since when they meet up they stay up all night watching bad martial arts films and playing resident evil...
On friday morning i got a call from my bf who said that A had suddenly cancelled on him late last night because he was too hung over to do anything. I couldnt see my bf since i'd already made plans.
Turns out A had 'washed' his phone accidently, so hadn't got my bf's messages. I didn't get it. A knew they were meeting up yet didnt bother to explain earlier or call him to do anything.
Then today they made concrete plans to do something and my bf came over in the morning/early afternoon. A little while after he left my bf texted me to say A called him (bear with me here) and said he'd be an hour or so late!
This is really starting to make me \t
I had a completely free evening tonight, house all to myself, which doesn't often happen, and because A has been so unavailable and unreachable I can't spend it with my bf!
I can't tell if I'm being unreasonable here, and I'm not about to tell my bf about my annoyance towards his best friend. I just wanted to know if I was making a fuss over nothing *big sigh* rant over