It's the same ole crap here and I'm really getting tired of it. Most of you know my husband decided to leave and go live with his friends a while back. Well he still wants all the benefits of marriage and it's pissing me off. At the same time, I really care for him.
Tonight Rashid just knocked on my door. I had already locked the door, turned the computer off and was under the covers ready for sleep. So I open the door and he comes in, goes to the refrigerator for juice and then follows me to my bedroom.
After years, he still doesn't get it that I go to bed at 10:00 PM and that's that! I get up early and go to bed early. He stays up all night and sleeps in late.
When he comes over late like this I just feel like I'm an afterthought. YOu know.... he goes to the mosque then goes to play with his friends at the gym, then decides he's going to stop by his wifes house. This just rubs me the wrong way.
I've tried to explain to him that I'm not a last minute person or a late night person but he doesn't understand why I can't be like him. Not to mention I think it's rude to just drop in on someone at that time of night. Am I all wet here?
I guess I just feel like we're not living like husband and wife so it pisses me off when he tries to pull stuff like this. Then he leaves with his bottom lip hanging to the floor, leaving me feeling guilty. For what?? UUuugghh!! I don't even know if this makes sense but I had to get it out. Now I have to turn off the PC again and get in bed because I took a pill and I'm getting very sleeeeeeeeeeepy
Tonight Rashid just knocked on my door. I had already locked the door, turned the computer off and was under the covers ready for sleep. So I open the door and he comes in, goes to the refrigerator for juice and then follows me to my bedroom.
After years, he still doesn't get it that I go to bed at 10:00 PM and that's that! I get up early and go to bed early. He stays up all night and sleeps in late.
When he comes over late like this I just feel like I'm an afterthought. YOu know.... he goes to the mosque then goes to play with his friends at the gym, then decides he's going to stop by his wifes house. This just rubs me the wrong way.
I've tried to explain to him that I'm not a last minute person or a late night person but he doesn't understand why I can't be like him. Not to mention I think it's rude to just drop in on someone at that time of night. Am I all wet here?
I guess I just feel like we're not living like husband and wife so it pisses me off when he tries to pull stuff like this. Then he leaves with his bottom lip hanging to the floor, leaving me feeling guilty. For what?? UUuugghh!! I don't even know if this makes sense but I had to get it out. Now I have to turn off the PC again and get in bed because I took a pill and I'm getting very sleeeeeeeeeeepy