It was around 6 mos. ago that we adopted a friendly, playful 2 y.o, male Russian Blue as foster-brother for our lone 4 y.o. Female tabby. We did all the textbook things to acclimitize them to one another, and though now most of the time they coexist, they generally retreat into their own separate areas apart- and the only times they get together really is to fight. The boy just wants to play flight, and rarely if ever uses his claws and never tries to bite; our girl is perpetually mean to him- will try and scratch or bite him even though the poor guy still tries to go up to her to groom her or headbutt from time to time, in vain. He is laid back and doesn't care if she is the alpha, but I think because he is twice her size and more muscular, she views him as a perpetual threat. No matter what, we adore them both and I think life is still more fun and interesting for her than it was all alone- but it's such a shame the boy has to have his new sister be such a beeatch to him all the time.
Is there any hope- or methods- to get them- in particular to get our girl (since he is friendly) to be friendly to him or is that just something we have to accept due to her anti-social personality? To us she is as sweet as ever. Are psychotropic drugs an option i.e. is it possible she has some sort of OCD that can be treated to allow her to finally realize he is not a threat? (That approach has been mentioned from time to time on NPR's "Animal House").
Is there any hope- or methods- to get them- in particular to get our girl (since he is friendly) to be friendly to him or is that just something we have to accept due to her anti-social personality? To us she is as sweet as ever. Are psychotropic drugs an option i.e. is it possible she has some sort of OCD that can be treated to allow her to finally realize he is not a threat? (That approach has been mentioned from time to time on NPR's "Animal House").