I just have to comment on how affectionate Kolohe is becoming. Before my husband died last year Kolohe was most definitely his cat. I sometimes thought Kolohe tolerated me only because I served his food and cleaned his litter boxes.
In recent months he has become more and more affectionate with me. Now if I am sitting at the kitchen table reading he'll come up on the table (I know, bad meowmy for allowing that) and ask for attention. He loves to have his head rubbed so I rub his head and talk to him. Lately he's been reaching out his little paw and gently patting my nose and giving me nice head butts. Yea, Kolohe.
He never has been and never will be a lap cat but he's more willing to accept attention and love from me. Here's a new pic of my boy.