My 3-year-old former queen Bengal is increasingly aggressive and displaying progressively bad behavior, such as biting and ignoring "no". She's actually putting herself in danger by jumping on kitchen counters where there might be knives, and on the stove where there might be live flames. Her former stud and love of her life, whom we also have, is now actually intimidated by her. She is still a sweetheart with her humans and loves to play and interact. What's wrong with my kitty? And how can I help her stop putting herself in danger and also to be friends again with the male?